More about Jackin' and Jillin'
As you can see from stories I've already posted, both my wife and I embrace masturbation. We both enjoyed loving ourselves before we ever met and saw no reason whatsoever to abandon our self-pleasuring just because we now had unlimited opportunity for intercourse (and oral). We never viewed solo pleasure as inferior or secondary to PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex. So, there was also never a reason to have to hide our solo activities. I never had to scuttle-off to the garage, the basement or the bathroom to rub one out.
But one of the most important parts of all this was the fact that we both allowed one another the "space" necessary to fully enjoy our solo fun. While we'd rather be together doing something than pursuing separate activities and interests, we both realized that to fully enjoy solo masturbation, one has to have time. And so, we allow for that. If one of us is going out, it's not for a totally unspecified amount of time. We give the other person some idea of when we expect to get back home. Often, we'll also call each other if we're headed back from some business, task or event. That way, the other person has a pretty good idea of how to plan THEIR time; whether it involves masturbation or not. And often, it does.
We also get together regularly to enjoy shared and mutual masturbation, which is just incredible. It's wonderful to have the sense of freedom and liberation where two people can both love themselves and each other. We enjoy both the exhibition and the voyeurism, feeding off each other's energy. We wish that all couples could find the means and the courage to broach the topic of masturbation and enjoy it - solo and shared - without shame, hesitation or doubt. Relationships and the world in general would be a much happier place.
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